@Annie Drat! I’ve been called out on my foggy gibberish, again. Did I say that out loud?

The distinction I tried and failed to draw is: if one is annoying to others simple because of one's existence, that's bogus, but if one is consistently taking actions to annoy others, well, maybe something else is happening with one that’s not to do with persecution or its variants. I guess I’m tip-toeing around the deeper concept of 'intent’.

The sense I get from you is that simply being who you are bugs some folks around you. An ignorant remark is made, you don’t resist the urge to comment on it. Worldview force field takes a hit. Eyebrows and smirks and sighs oh my. I don’t wish anyone would have to deal with that on the regular, but I understand your holding firm.